How guys could and do feel and respond to kisses from girls

I am adding to what I said in https://genderlovesexuality.wordpress.com/2021/11/06/how-a-guy-could-respond-to-kisses-from-a-girl/

If a girl says to the guy “Can I kiss you” as she comes in to kiss him, and he’s uncomfortable or uncertain, he could go “umm…” or “uh…”, then she should say “If you don’t want it, just say no thank you.” Maybe the guy would feel pleasure from kisses, he was just not prepared for her to make a move to kiss him, after she stops and says “if you don’t want it, you can just say no thank you,” he could say “No it’s ok, just go ahead.” She will then kiss him.

When a girl gives a guy kisses on the cheek, he can feel restless, excited, hyper, or shaky. Especially autistic guys. She could say “you’re sweating, relax!” Maybe he could take a breath, or listen to soothing music, have blowing coolness, essential oils, and/or have a massage.

If a girl approaches a guy trying to kiss his lips, he could back away like he would from a bear. He could go “uh…”, make a nervous smile, and then chuckle nervously. It’s like the scene of Wendy trying to kiss Peter Pan.

As for children, they are discouraged from kissing anyone but family members. If say, a nine year old girl gives a ten year old boy a lighthearted, superficial smooch/peck on the cheek, he could go “whoop!” and/or make a slightly uncomfortable chuckle or giggle.

Anyway, when a pretty, attractive girl kisses a guy on one cheek, he can turn the other cheek and let her kiss it. That’s a more pleasant new meaning of turning the other cheek, compared to Matthew 5:39.

Men spend more on Valentine’s day, but both men and women expect about the same.

Still not harmony. The gender that expects more should be the one that spends less, and the gender that spends more should be the one that expects less. If only I could explain it better, I’ll just say that harmony would mean that men expect the same amount women spend, and men spend the same amount women expect. That’s the best that I can explain it.