My comments on a 2021 big data study about men and women dealing with breakups

https://news.yahoo.com/men-suffer-more-emotional-pain-than-women-in-break-ups-finds-study-135756412.html

Why does Yahoo! News not allow comments on its posts?

https://nypost.com/2021/11/03/men-more-heartbroken-than-women-during-a-breakup-study/

I couldn’t find a comments section on that either. On both I clicked the author’s name but I didn’t see any contact email.

As for an earlier study…

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/why-men-might-be-the-sex-that-suffers-more-after-a-110106781.html – Why do men not resolve the issue of went wrong in the previous relationship? Why didn’t men evolve to gain personal growth from breakups? I don’t see any evolutionary disadvantage in men resolving what went wrong in the previous relationship.. Wouldn’t doing such be an evolutionary advantage for men, since it would help them know what to do better in the next relationship? Wouldn’t they have greater chance to pass their genes with the next partner then? And why did men evolve to be cut off guard by breakup? I don’t see any evolutionary advantage in that. Wouldn’t analyzing relationships be an evolutionary advantage for men? I also think intuition would be an evolutionary advantage for men in mate-guarding, since they would then be able to predict if and when their partners are going to cheat.

My comments would be as follows

But why do men suffer more from breakups? Is there any biological reason? Why did evolution lead men to sufffer more from breakups? And why do false gender stereotypes exist? Why has society painted men as the unfeeling and detached sex? Why are gender stereotypes not accurate?

More thoughts

I search https://www.google.com/search?q=How+does+testosterone+affect+how+men+handle+breakups but it returns a bunch of JUNK results about married men having lower testosterone levels. I’m thinking of asking ChatGPT “How does testosterone affect how men deal with breakups.” You can also ask it, and if legal, you can write in a comment to my post the main idea of what ChatGPT said. Summarize what ChatGPT said.

Another thing, women should feel their ex’s broken hearts with empathy. Women should view things from their ex’s perspective. Part of treating your ex the way you want to be treated (Matthew 7:12 and Luke 6:31) would be to avoid breaking your ex’s heart at all costs. As for an eye for an eye (Leviticus 24:20), a woman should return love for love with her partner, and a man should not return love for no love. Edit: I forgot “Love your neighbor as yourself,” Matthew 19:19 and 22:39, Mark 12:31, and Galatians 5:14.

What about turning the other cheek (Matthew 5:39) when your partner abuses you?

Edit: A woman should rejoice in one boyfriend or husband who abandons her and returns, more than 99 boyfriends or husbands who never leave her. Is that extreme? Why would a woman have 100 boyfriend or husbands? That would be a polygamy.

Matthew 5:44 and Luke 6:27 do not refer to romantic love, I’m pretty sure the Greek word is agape. Check out https://leewoof.org/2012/12/09/can-christians-be-hardass/, but do so with caution, since I believe that Lee Woofenden is a fringe Swedenborgian false teacher of a cult.

And men that are heartbroken by a breakup will get another happier life with a partner they love, either from reincarnation as in Buddhism, or in Heaven as in Christianity. Science cannot prove that there’s no life after death. But there was something on American History Channel about conscience, quantum physics, and extraterrestrial aliens. I don’t know what would be on Discovery Channel.