See https://genderlovesexuality.wordpress.com/2022/06/28/disappointing-gender-differences/ and https://genderlovesexuality.wordpress.com/2023/06/11/ideal-vs-actual-gender-traits-and-differences/
I stumbled on https://leewoof.org/2015/10/31/a-new-model-of-manhood/ which says that man’s masculinity is love coated in wisdom, while a woman’s femininity is wisdom coated in love.
Maybe men are born to love but develop wisdom over time, while women are born wise but develop love over time.
Be very cautious about what Lee Woofenden says, because he’s a fringe teacher of a Swedenborgian cult.
Insights on gender, Love, dating, sexuality, and marriage 